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The Probably Important Podcast - Inside Conversations, Out Loud
Life isn't about avoiding struggles — it's about learning to rise through them.
On Probably Important, host Mariel Anderson shares unfiltered, inside conversations about growth, resilience, antifragility, and the often messy (but beautiful) process of becoming our strongest selves.
Through solo episodes and real, honest guest interviews, we explore:
- Healing through adversity
- Building emotional resilience
- Authentic living and belonging
- Mental health, identity, and leadership
- Daily tools for living an anti-fragile life
With humor, wisdom, and raw vulnerability, Probably Important taps into how the hardest seasons of life shape the deepest parts of who we are.
Because the conversations we often keep locked away ---
They're probably important.
The Probably Important Podcast - Inside Conversations, Out Loud
Season 1 Ep. 12 - Growing Pains - Mariel & Josh
Join Mariel and Josh on the "Probably Important Podcast" as they dive into a profound discussion about the complexities of personal growth and the journey of letting go of old ways while facing new challenges. Mariel opens up about feeling overwhelmed by her own growth, describing moments of reflection while lying in the sun and contemplating the process of continual betterment.
The conversation delves into the idea of saying goodbye to who we've been, as Mariel acknowledges the necessity of grieving the passing of former selves that have served us until now. While change can bring discomfort, Mariel finds solace and purpose in the promise of less suffering for all through her evolving understanding of self-defense.
Mariel reflects on how her approach to fighting has changed. Where she once faced threats physically, she now stands calmly within, regulating her emotions. She acknowledges that while new strategies may be unfamiliar, compassion for her protector's role eases the transition to greater wellness.
The discussion also touches on the idea of confrontation and how Mariel has learned to approach it differently. She shares a moment of calling her mother for guidance and recognizing the importance of confronting old patterns consciously rather than reactively. With tools but not plans, Mariel embraces openness to experience as she steps into challenging herself safely.
Mariel also discusses the stages of learning new skills, detailing her progression from unawareness to mastery. She is currently conscious of her new abilities but acknowledges that their automatic application requires practice and a willingness to embrace the unknown.
Throughout the conversation, Josh and Mariel explore the concept that life without discomfort is ultimately unpleasant. They agree that while discomfort can be challenging, it is essential for growth. Without it, there is a risk of stagnation and harm. They emphasize that struggles can cultivate empathy, resilience, and a sense of reward through overcoming adversity.
Tune in to the "Probably Important Podcast" for a thought-provoking conversation on personal growth, discomfort, and the rewards of embracing change.
